Welcome to my website!
In my professional life, as in my personal life, I wear a number of different hats – educator, writer, coach, trainer, and facilitator. I have taught thousands of people throughout the US, Canada, and overseas for the past 17 years; I’ve also written dozens of articles, essays, advice columns, book chapters, and blog posts on topics ranging from sexuality & pleasure to mental wellness, personal growth, aging, and trauma recovery. My class topics range from basic sex-positive sexuality & pleasure education through alternative sexuality & relationships styles (including BDSM, kink, and polyamory), body and gender positivity, and activism (you can get a peek at my schedule here). I believes strongly that the more that we know, accept, and love ourselves, the more we’re able to advocate for the empowered relationships and erotic intimacy that we dream of.
My writing has been featured in magazines (including a bimonthly column in StorErotica, an adult industry retail magazine) as well as online: a monthly column, “Dear Sarah”, at Fearless Press, blog entries for MyPleasure, articles and how-to’s for SexIs Magazine, as well acted as the Contributing Editor of Tristan Taormino’s newsletter, The Double T. I’ve also had my writing included in Lee Harrington’s book, Rope, Bondage and Power, as well as Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play, and the Erotic Edge, edited by Tristan Taormino. I’ve has been honored as the Ms Illinois Leather Pride 2016 title holder, been a nominee for the Pantheon of Leather’s Woman of the Year award for 2009, was the 1st Runner Up for International Ms Leather 2009, and was a past nominee for the Vaughan Keith National Educator award from Black Rose.